Breadcrumbing

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Breadcrumbing means tossing someone only small signs of interest to keep them hooked, without really meaning it.

Breadcrumbing comes from “breadcrumbs”. Someone who breadcrumbs scatters little morsels of attention: a like here, a short message there, plus a vague “We should really meet up sometime”. That keeps the other person interested – but nothing committed ever follows.

For the one getting the crumbs, it’s wearing. Every little message raises hope, and yet you never get any further. A typical pattern: days of silence, then suddenly “Hey, just thinking of you” – and then nothing again.

On DaddyBoy

If you feel you’re just being strung along, feel free to ask directly what the other person has in mind. A clear answer is worth more than lots of crumbs. And if you notice you’re not really interested yourself, “End chat” in the chat menu is the fairer choice.

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