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A daddy is a more mature man who attracts with self-assurance, experience and often a protective manner – more about presence than age.
On the gay scene, a daddy is a more mature man whom others desire for his self-assurance, his experience and his composure. He often takes a leading or protective role – but that’s not a must.
Important: daddy isn’t an age, it’s a presence. Some are already daddies in their mid-thirties, others don’t feel like one at all at sixty. It’s about how you come across and what you radiate.
As a pet name for a lover, “daddy” already appears in the blues of the 1920s. Today it stands for a particular attraction between generations.
A daddy-boy relationship lives on both of you wanting it. Even if one leads more, you meet as equals: with respect, clear agreements and the right to say no at any time.
“I like how calm you are – real daddy vibes.”
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