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Catfishing means pretending to be someone else online with fake photos or an invented identity – often in order to scam.
A catfish is someone who pretends to be a different person online. He uses other people’s photos and makes up his age, where he lives or his life story. Some just want attention, but often there’s a scam behind it: in a so-called romance scam, trust is built up first and then money is asked for.
The term became known through the 2010 film “Catfish”, which later also became a series.
Typical warning signs: he never wants to talk on the phone or by video, a meet-up always falls through at the last minute, and at some point there’s an emergency: “I just need a bit of money quickly, you’ll get it straight back.”
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Look out for the Verified badge on a profile: it shows that someone has proven to us that they are an adult, and it protects against fake profiles. Never send money to chat acquaintances, however good the story sounds. If a profile seems suspicious, report it in the chat or on the profile.
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- Love BombingLove bombing means showering someone with affection, compliments and attention right from the start – often to tie them to you.
- Red Flag, Green Flag, Beige FlagA red flag is a warning sign, a green flag a good sign, a beige flag an odd but harmless quirk.
- Soft LaunchA soft launch means only hinting at a new relationship on social media instead of openly showing your partner.